Have you ever been dumped by a friend embarking on a romance????????????????
It may be due to limited number of people we can have as close and intimate friends………….
If you go into a relationship, it actually costs you two friends in that inner core of that relationship. Instead of having the typical five friends, they only have four in that inner circle and bearing that one of those is the new person that has come into your life, it means you have to give up two others.
Guys tend to have four or five intimate friends, girls five or six. Both guys and girls abandon their friends at start of a new romantic attachment.
Here is an experience of a girl who has been into a relationship….
“I was in relationship for 3 years and when I broke up I found I don’t have many friends left, whom I can hang out with or cry on their shoulder because in these 3 years every free moment, every holiday was spent with my boyfriend.”
So your attention is wholly focused on the romantic partners, you just don’t get to see the other folks you had a lot to do with before. Those relationship starts to deteriorate.
SO what’s your take on this people???????
It may be due to limited number of people we can have as close and intimate friends………….
If you go into a relationship, it actually costs you two friends in that inner core of that relationship. Instead of having the typical five friends, they only have four in that inner circle and bearing that one of those is the new person that has come into your life, it means you have to give up two others.
Guys tend to have four or five intimate friends, girls five or six. Both guys and girls abandon their friends at start of a new romantic attachment.
Here is an experience of a girl who has been into a relationship….
“I was in relationship for 3 years and when I broke up I found I don’t have many friends left, whom I can hang out with or cry on their shoulder because in these 3 years every free moment, every holiday was spent with my boyfriend.”
So your attention is wholly focused on the romantic partners, you just don’t get to see the other folks you had a lot to do with before. Those relationship starts to deteriorate.
SO what’s your take on this people???????
no matter what frnds should never b ignored rather u can ask ur new partner to develop a bond with ur frnds.
ReplyDeleteit does occur in reality.its upto da person how he/she maintain da balanse in both da relationship....
ReplyDeletei've read about this earlier as well. and my take has too sides. when your relationship starts then you definitely loose your friends for a while and the moment you loose your love, your friends are the ones who take that place. you can balance your relationships but it's the matter of what importance must be given to whom and at what time.. and yes if you've real folks then they'll understand cause they'll also meet up this challenge one day.. remember "when in love, you are just in love"
ReplyDelete@shruti-its nt so easy yaar....
ReplyDelete@sakshi-but love always overshadows friendship
i completely agree vid u himani......very well said...thanx.....as said by himani, a person shud always knw vot is to b done and at vot time.......
ReplyDeletethanks Mayank...:-)))
ReplyDeletewell...its not alwayz that we loose our best frndz when we r into a relationship...
ReplyDeletethingz can be maintained...we can mange both of them...infact your partner should understand the frndship btwn u nd ur besty...
if d understnading z well...drz no problem at all...!
@akansha i believe that if some1 new comes to ur life then u cant or u shud not forget ur old relations.in the beginning love relation is the most imp but after sometime u shud learn to balance both.and i am sure our frnds and partner understand that.
ReplyDeleteyup...all is written above...similar thoughts..
ReplyDelete@mayank and rohan-i agree wid u ppl but most of d ppl dnt knw hw to bal their relationships...
ReplyDelete@shruti-hmmmm...........may be u r rite...i dnt hv much experience
dun wrry about others....jst think about urself...if u initiate to balance ur relations...m sure ur friends wil also give a hand to u...
ReplyDeletechinta nako re..!
sab changa....chak de phatte..!
te karo balle balle/...!
thanx rohan.....:)
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