Every child grows out differently. Different than he thought as a child. Even different than what his parents raised him to be. Because that’s who he really is.
A child can be rebellious for his own parents at times in life. This does not mean that he loves them less or has lost respect towards them. All it indicates is a wind of change. This wind makes a person who he really is or what he wants himself to be. Which may or may not contradict his parents’ opinion of him.
This may give birth to fights. On and Off fights which always end up being resolved on the dinner table. But sometimes, it is more than that. Hearts are broken , Respect all vanished , Love all give up. But isn’t this the cost you pay, to prove yourself? Maybe that is the cost you have to pay.
Sometimes, you have to understand and at other times you have to make people to understand you. That’s life.
Strange stuff happen, people change, but so do you. “Strange stuff happens and when it happens more often, it gradually starts seeming less stranger. That’s the principle of life. You enter a new atmosphere and you get used to it and you make a difference in yourself to make yourself fit in that particular niche.”
But , sometimes it is the opposite way around. You have to alter yourself to be what others want you to be like. This does not mean that you sacrifice your happiness, Love is Sacrifice. You can always give up on some things for the people who gave up everything for you. Can you not?
Parents have their dreams and expectations and they’re always ready to give up on them if those make you unhappy. Children can make their own decisions obviously, but not at the cost of losing the bond with the ones who taught you how to make decisions in the first place. Convince your parents about what you want to do with your life, they do not measure you by the yardstick of their own years. Ofcousre they’re older and have a better experience, but they try their best to figure out why we do what we do. They’ve seen you yesterday, in your mother’s arms and they’re seeing you today, ready to color the sky. Tell them everything. Do not hide anything because “To Know All Is To Forgive All.”
A child can be rebellious for his own parents at times in life. This does not mean that he loves them less or has lost respect towards them. All it indicates is a wind of change. This wind makes a person who he really is or what he wants himself to be. Which may or may not contradict his parents’ opinion of him.
This may give birth to fights. On and Off fights which always end up being resolved on the dinner table. But sometimes, it is more than that. Hearts are broken , Respect all vanished , Love all give up. But isn’t this the cost you pay, to prove yourself? Maybe that is the cost you have to pay.
Sometimes, you have to understand and at other times you have to make people to understand you. That’s life.
Strange stuff happen, people change, but so do you. “Strange stuff happens and when it happens more often, it gradually starts seeming less stranger. That’s the principle of life. You enter a new atmosphere and you get used to it and you make a difference in yourself to make yourself fit in that particular niche.”
But , sometimes it is the opposite way around. You have to alter yourself to be what others want you to be like. This does not mean that you sacrifice your happiness, Love is Sacrifice. You can always give up on some things for the people who gave up everything for you. Can you not?
Parents have their dreams and expectations and they’re always ready to give up on them if those make you unhappy. Children can make their own decisions obviously, but not at the cost of losing the bond with the ones who taught you how to make decisions in the first place. Convince your parents about what you want to do with your life, they do not measure you by the yardstick of their own years. Ofcousre they’re older and have a better experience, but they try their best to figure out why we do what we do. They’ve seen you yesterday, in your mother’s arms and they’re seeing you today, ready to color the sky. Tell them everything. Do not hide anything because “To Know All Is To Forgive All.”
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